Sunday, May 6, 2012

One step at a time

I'll start out easily...

Peter's lost stuff
1. The red ball from his ball popper
2. The yellow-orange ball from his ball popper
3. The mechanic from his Little People parking garage
4. A yellow cloth diaper

Things on my mind for the week
1. Keeping things ordered and looking good at work while my co-worker/superior is in Ireland
2. Jogging and getting dinner ready tomorrow morning before work
3. Talking to my mom about Mother's Day
4. Making cookies (hopefully today)
5. Finishing off that bottle of V8 juice I finally opened last week
6. Finally making an appointment to go back to the eye doctor so I can tell him that yes, the contacts did work out and can I please have my prescription for them now even though it's over 4 months since I originally came in.
7. Put more music onto my iPhone
8. Have cheese and crackers ready for class on Tuesday night (*as a side note, I was just thinking about how fun it would be to use cookie cutters to make the cheese into cute shapes, this will surely bite me in the butt later when I'm not happy about all the time it takes, but if it works out I will try to post pics*)

Things I need to get done soon (and am ashamed that I haven't yet)
1. Write a will
2. Actually put Peter's money into an education account (so first I must research them)

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Lists

Blogging isn't working for me, at least not at this time in my life. I don't have high expectations, but I am going to try making lists on here. It could be very boring for readers (if there are any), but I like lists and it is a way for me to both utilize the blog and hopefully make sense of day to day life and more.

List of lists (I'd like to make)

1. What I would like to improve on in daily life
2. Shows and movies I would like to see soon
3. Music to work out to
4. Things I'd like to accomplish in the year
5. Things I'd like to accomplish each month
6. Things I'd like to have Peter do
7. Ways that I'd like to improve my marriage
8. Things that are currently lost

That's all I'm going to do for now, if I continue to type it will be solely to avoid doing dishes... ok actually I am going to procrastinate, but only to list what's most important to get done today (I have two child related classes that will take my time from 4:15 to 8:15pm tonight and it's about 1pm now).

5/1/12
1. Dishes
2. Pack tomorrow's lunch
3. Get bike stuff ready (I'm going to try to bike to work tomorrow)
4. Pick out clothes for tomorrow (Peter and my clothes)
5. Note for Dave (about plan for tomorrow, dinner, etc.)
6. Diaper cleaning

Most exciting news received today (so far)
1. Dave has been offered a job at Deer River

Now it's really time for #1 on the 5/1/12 list.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

6 months later...

I will keep this short and hopefully informative.

Peter is doing well, he's starting to walk, looks like a little monster of Frankenstein walk. Dave's doing well, has some of the usual frustrations with teaching. I'm doing well also, though I'm disappointed in my list of 30...

I still have a couple months left (a little less) and have accomplished some things.

Accomplished
  1. mark down b-days on calendar (mixed results with acknowledging people, didn't get everyone)
  2. plan a 1st b-day for Peter (successful, family affair)
  3. ate dinner at the dining room table most nights
  4. pay off the car
  5. acquired one more house plant
  6. mixed results with adding vegetables to diet
  7. read 12 books
  8. got Peter on a sleep schedule (not 100% perfect)
  9. drinking water is good on days I work
  10. went out to eat
  11. saw g-ma a little more often
  12. organized file cabinet
  13. jumped off the mine dump cliff
  14. took Peter swimming
  15. took Peter sledding
  16. made oreo cake
  17. went canoeing
  18. had a garage sale

Peter is awake now so I'll have to finish later, blogging just hasn't made any list of priorities for months.



Saturday, May 21, 2011

it's been a long time, a really long time...

In the last couple of months I've looked at my email maybe once a week and generally only used the computer for work and filing for about 8 hours total. I feel sort of guilty about not updating the blog and not keeping up with much of anything. I have read about 5 books in that time and enjoyed that.
Peter became pretty sick in that time too. He had this never-ending cold that turned into pink eye and an ear infection by mid-April. He was treated but we ended up bringing him a couple more times in May and getting more drugs that seem to have helped him out. Now he's just a little "snarfy" in the mornings. I was starting to lose it a little while he was so sick, especially after taking him to the ER one evening and not really finding much to help (other than re-propping his crib so that he had better drainage). It's very difficult when you feel helpless to do anything for your little one.
Two of Peter's teeth have come in (although that contributed to his sick symptoms, it wasn't the sole cause) and he occasionally uses them to chomp Dave and I. My sister and brother-in-law's child had his first birthday already. We haven't traveled much in the last couple of months and it's been nice to lie low for a while. I started to bring Peter to story time at the library. I don't think he listens that well to the books, but he loves to see the other children. As of yesterday he started to roll over both ways frequently and without any problem. It seemed sort of sudden since he could do it for over a month but had trouble and didn't seem to care to do it much.
I just had a tooth taken out. All four of my wisdom teeth had been extracted when I was 20 but a year or two later another tooth could be seen on an x-ray high up in my gums. The tooth finally came down while I was pregnant and this week I had it removed because I couldn't really brush it adequately and figured it should come out sooner than later. I sort of forgot what it was like having teeth pulled and found the experience to be a little frightening just because it seemed like more pressure and work (on the dentist's part) than anticipated. The tooth just had one fat root and looks like a small molar.
Dave had a band concert the same day I had my tooth pulled, originally I was possibly going to help out the 9th grade flute players by playing along on "Stars and Stripes Forever." Dave ended up pulling the piece (probably to be played next year) which was fortunate for me since I didn't really think through the recovery of the gum and how it would affect my playing. The concert was good and many people in the district very much appreciate Dave, very important in a small school where music could be cut in a pinch. Dave only has one week of school with students left, soon he will be Peter's caretaker two days a week and we will bring Peter to his regular provider once a week. I wanted him to have at least a little consistency with the daycare since he will go back 3 days a week in September and I believe his psychological maturity in the next few months may make it a rougher transition if he were to go 3 months without seeing anyone at daycare and then be thrown back into it half the week.
As I probably could have guessed, my more concrete goals on the list of 30 are being accomplished pretty well, and the more abstract/social-emotional goals are falling behind... I think I've maintained status quot with Dave. Being tired and sick (me = tired, occasionally sick, Peter and Dave = sick, also tired from time to time) has given me an easy but poor excuse to not devote true quality time to marriage. I'm not saying that our marriage is not good, just that I'm not putting the work into it that I should because I've been expending energy on Peter (very justified and important) and trying to keep myself healthy and up on chores, and honestly, I've been spending time reading and watching tv that could be cut back. Mostly I write this paragraph with the intention of refocusing on being loving and being visibly/audibly thankful for Dave (because I am thankful, it's just not expressed well). I will have to reevaluate in another month or so.
Currently Dave is out of town and I'm being visited by my mom. She's with grandma right now and Peter has been taking an amazing nap, so much that we might miss story time. Time to catch up on other online stuff as long as the nap continues... I'm still used to 30-40 min naps from Peter but lately he's been throwing some 1-2 hour naps in the mix. I would love it if he would continue. The more mobile he becomes the more I will need his naps to lengthen so I can get chores done.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

update 2

Wow, it's been a long time... Peter is 5 months old now and we've started giving him rice cereal. It's so exciting to me, even a highlight of my day (guess that's mommy-hood for you). He has a pretty bad cold right now that involves lots of congestion and coughing but I think it's getting better. No fever at least.

Work has been going pretty well, I'm getting a little better at knowing what to do. I had a review at the beginning of the month that went pretty well, I need need to work on taking initiative and having confidence but otherwise it sounds like they are pleased with my work.

Dave has been busy with fundraiser type events for his big Chicago trip (taking the jr. and sr. high students there over an extended weekend in April) and with pep band, girls basketball is doing pretty well.

As for my "30" list...

Accomplished: 6. Pay off our car (this was very recent and was possible because of the contract being settled at Dave's school and because of our tax refund), 19. Go out to eat sans Peter

In progress: 2. Mark b-days and communicate, 4. Eat dinner at the table (mostly going very well), 11. Meal plan (mixed results, but my cooking has been much better since January), 14. Eat veggies (getting better), 15. Read books (I'm on book 4 for the year), 17. Peter sleep schedule (he's starting to sleep through the night and stay up for longer periods during the day, I may abandon a true schedule as long as he's taking naps and going to bed between 6-8pm), 18. Drink water, 20. Visit grandma, 21. play flute (slow start but it's been fun now that I'm doing it), 27. P goes skiing... this may not happen, but I may substitute taking him around in his sled.

Seasonal (not happening yet): 3. P's b-day party, 24. mine dump cliff jump, 26. P swimming, 29. canoeing, 30. garage sale

Not accomplished: 1. P's college fund, 5. news (although sometimes I catch some on NPR), 7. increase savings, 8. week w/o technology, 9. more family time, 10. crabby control, 12. trip plans, 13. house plants, 16. will, 22. cleaning, 23. file cabinet, 25. Dave love, 28. oreo cake (this is coming up soon, I have all of the ingredients - including ones that will expire within a week).

Sunday, January 23, 2011

update

Since I wrote my list of 30 things to do I have gotten a tiny bit of a start on some of the things and not started others. Shortly after my birthday both Dave and I got sick with a stomach bug/flu. I used it as an excuse for not starting some of the things, like playing flute (still haven't) and cleaning. I have started making meal plans and have been eating healthier (getting that extra serving of vegetables). I started work again and Dave's teacher union and the school board finally settled last April's contract so we should be doing a little better financially... doesn't mean we'll pay off the car, but maybe we can get close to meeting my savings goal. I wrote down people's birthdays on my calendar and we've been pretty good about sitting down to dinner together. Peter's not always on board with sitting down to dinner. Lately he seems to want to sit upright and many of his contraptions have him laying back. I read one baby book (about babies, not a book for babies, I've read several stories to Peter). Some of the items are seasonal but I need to keep the cross-country skiing one in mind since there will probably only be a few days where it will be warm and cold enough for that.

I'm probably most disappointed about eating at the fancy Italian place. Dave and I will still be going out to eat this Tuesday, but I just found out that the Italian place closed. Apparently it was very expensive and not enough people were eating there but it's mostly depressing because my parents had given us a spendy gift certificate for that restaurant. I will have to look into whether there is any reimbursement, I guess we should have just hauled Peter along and gone before January when they closed.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

warning: dead animal pictures

Last weekend we celebrated new year's in Duluth with friends. On Sunday Dave commented on how much snow was on the roof and how he should shovel, but he could feel sickness coming on (I was sick already) and didn't want to strain himself and make it worse. At 2:15am on Monday (one of Peter's feedings) I heard a loud crack above me and envisioned Peter buried alive in an avalanche. Apparently the loud noise was just the house shifting because of the extreme cold (it was -23ยบ F at 9am that day), but I didn't want to take chances so on Tuesday I decided to take on the roof snow. Dave stayed home sick as a dog that day so every time I put Peter down for a nap I went out knowing he could grab him or call for me if Peter needed something.

I knew it would be a big job, but I wasn't prepared for how much snow I would be moving. I figured with Dave home and multiple chances to get out there I would have the whole thing done no problem. Pictured here is my handiwork...














And here is a shot of just how deep that snow was, along with a shovel for perspective (though the shovel is lying at an angle, I would say it was deeper than knee-high).







So that was about a couple hours of work, oh, what? There's still another side to the roof and the entire garage?! Sigh.
I don't remember if I wrote about our flying squirrels or not. This summer we discovered that flying squirrels were camping out in the roof over the porch. On Tuesday while shoveling I saw one scurry up a tree and glide down to another. I found this very strange since they are nocturnal and I believe they hibernate, but I guess my stomping around up there scared it. Not only that but as I got to the end of the roof to check out their little burrow hole...

I looked over the edge and saw something in the snow...


was that? yep, frozen stiff...














So after about 3-4 hours of shoveling I cleared off the house, but not the garage. Wednesday, my birthday, I was sore, my back, shoulders, left forearm, and even my hands ached. Today I decided to take it easy and only take care of the mess I made in front of our front door.





To do this took 40 minutes so I treated myself to a nap and later on a bath, foot scrub, and leg shave (Dave noticed my cave woman look the other day so I decided it was time). Now I just need to tackle the mountain of dishes and wash Peter's diapers. Notice the nice breath frost all over my hair.

Oh, and it was Peter's 3 month birthday on Tuesday!